How is Christ-centered counseling different from
secular counseling? We asked a Center for Women's Ministries volunteer who
has also been a secular counselor. Her answers are corroborated by other women
who have had secular, then Christ-centered, counseling.
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Ministries (CWM)
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Secular
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| 1. The living God is
present in the facility and each couseling session. The counselor brings the
supernatural love of Jesus within her to the counseling session. This love
allows the client to trust, share her pain, and experience the redeeming love
of Jesus.
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1. Many mental health centers (MHC) have rules that
religion is an inappropriate topic in
therapy. It is not the therapist's place to facilitate spiritual healing.
That is up to the client and whatever church and preacher she may find.
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| 2. CWM counseling is free. The client is counseled as
a unique person with unique problems, rather than given a diagnostic label
which would affect the counselor's and her own view of herself. The
counseling plan is based on that client's needs rather than artificially
fitting her into an economic framework
requiring either too much or too little counseling.
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2. Before managed care there was no
economic incentive to the therapist to
ever terminate the client. In the era of managed care, the opposite is
true. Now in order for insurance, HMO, Medicaid or Medicare to pay, one
must have a mental illness diagnosis. When the money is used up,
counseling is over.
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| 3. If a CWM counselor has no outside obligations, such
as children at home or employment, her case
load can be 5-10 clients per week, and she can still bring the
necessary ingredients to the counseling session.
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3. A secular counselor's case
load is a minimum of 28 clients, but often 40-50 people are seen
weekly. These clients believe the counselor is always fully aware of their
entire situation, remembers all their histories and problems, and has
planned out the current and future therapy sessions.
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| 4. The CWM holds itself to a higher standard of
confidentiality. There is no discussion of
clients between counselors. Written session notes are placed in an
envelope, sealed and given to the center director. (The counselor may
occasionally consult with the center director.)
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4. Much of the client base comes from mandatory
referrals. Clients must sign a releaase of information, so treatment
content is freely shared with the referring agency. This does not build
trust in the counseling session. Diagnosis and treatment notes on clients
with insurance or Medicaid can be accessed by the payer. Clients are
discussed in weekly staff meetings, and often their dilemmas become joke
material (stress relief). All of this threatens confidentiality.
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| 5. Clients are considered whole people with potential to overcome their
problems. They are valued and respected. A mentally ill label doesn not
become their primary identity.
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5. MHCs require a diagnosis if the client wants
counseling. Treatment falls under the medical model of doctor/patient or
expert/patient. The client is considered to be suffering from a mental
illness, no matter what her problems are.
Her self-image can be damaged by being labeled mentally ill.
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| 6. The essence of the healing process lies in the
relationship between counselor and client.
The volunteer counselor/client connection is a more authentic
relationship. The counselor has chosen to be in this relationship out of
a desire to serve and to bring Jesus' love to the client, not to earn a living.
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6. An artificial
relationship exists between professional
counselors and clients. Even if she enjoys what she does, the counselor is
there to earn a living and the client is there to provide that living.
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| 7. Psychology and our culture have convinced us that
God is dead and that we must rely on science and medicine alone for
answers. The Center for Women's Ministries,
under the authority and power of the living God, provides the opportunity
for true healing through the realm of faith, hope and love. It is only through
the power of Jesus Christ that the inner woman finds healing for the soul
and for all the deep hurts within.
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7. Our culture has evolved to increasing reliance on
science and medicine for answers to all
problems. Man believes he
has the potential to create a better world through science, technology and
brain power. Psychiatry and psychology promise answers to all life's
problems. Pharmaceutical medicine promises and produces drugs to address
these problems. The goal is to explain all human behavior through chemical
interactions in the brain, then design the right chemical to control them.
People are suffering more than ever. Despair and hopelessness are rampant.
Can medicine eradicate single-parent households, juvenile violence, spouse
abuse, infidelity, alcoholism and other substance abuse? Today there are
cutbacks in all types of funding for treatment and we are being told that
services made available by our employers or the government now need to be
provided by the churches.
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